Let your charity know you still want them to keep in touch

gdpr 2A new law comes into force in May, the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR), and it’s going to have quite an impact on charities.

On the whole, GDPR is a good thing. From May, any organisation that stores your data must have your consent to do so. This means selling your data will be futile because buyers won’t have permission to store your details.

Another area requiring your proactive consent is their contact with you. From May 25th, you’ll have to opt in. That is, you must clearly give your consent or they can’t phone you, email you or send you post.

Charities are covered by this legislation. They now need your express permission to send you their newsletters, updates and appeals. And you can opt to have some communications and not others. For instance, you can ask for the newsletter but say no to appeal letters.gdpr 1

However, this will make things difficult for them, because they  rely on contacting people to raise revenue. The RNLI switched to an opt-in consent system in 2015 and they estimate it cost them £35.6m in lost income.

This is because people don’t send forms back, even when they intend to. Let’s face it, life is busy. So a letter from a charity asking you to fill it in if you want further contact is going to the bottom of the TO Be Done pile.

If you’re a regular donor, such as a child sponsor at a charity like Crowborough based World In Need, you don’t have to worry. It’s assumed you’ve given consent for contact. Everyone else, though, must actually say yes.

Consent is deemed valid for two years, after which it should be updated.

So whatever your chosen charity, do them a favour. Let them have your consent now, before they have to lose your details, and your support.

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Release the sequels sooner, please!

The Major Meets His Match by Annie Burrows

The Major Meets His MatchWhat a delightful read this was! We had a heroine who was spirited, but refreshingly so, not just irritatingly stubborn, plus a hero infuriating in his constant need to tease her. Their encounters were fun, and filled with a chemistry that had me wanting more.

And yet, underneath the teasing, behind the clowning, we readers could see all was not right. Both suffered from tremendous lack of self esteem, which kept them apart far better than any chaperone ever could have done. Before they could find one another, they had to find the treasures within themselves. To say nothing of the treasures that had gone missing from Ant Susan’s jewellery collection…

Harriet and Jack were real people, complex and flawed, and wonderful. They and their predicaments stayed with me after I put down the book.

Just three things detracted from the enjoyment.

  1. I had to stop and check whether Jack was a Viscount because his father was dead, or whether it was because he was heir to an earl. Early in the book, a character referred to one of Jack’s deceased elder brothers as having been Viscount Becconsall, although we know both older brothers predeceased their father, indicating it was a courtesy title. But then, we’re led to believe Jack’s father has died, so it’s an hereditary one. A small point, perhaps, but to pedants like me, it matters.
  2. The word oh! So many of Harriet’s speeches, especially towards the end, contain that word. It’s like well and er and um. They get used frequently in real life speech, but in the dialogue in a book, they can be wearing.
  3. Finally, I am absolutely devastated to learn I must wait till January to read Book Two in this series. I hate when that happens. By January, I will have read so many more books, lived so much more life, that I will need a refresher course to remember Book 1 clearly.

(Although it won’t be so bad as long as book two is by the same author as book one. Mills and Boon don’t make reference to which books by different authors are linked, and the readers can miss an episode completely.)

So come on, Mills and Boon. Release the sequels sooner, please. And list the titles in a series, so we know which go together and what to look for.

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Redeeming the Rogue Knight

DCTl41uXoAAISpfI was given an advanced copy of this book and, since I’ve enjoyed Elisabeth Hobbes’ work before, I sat down with my cocoa, looking forward to the first couple of chapters before bed.

At 2.30am, I turned the last page, satisfied with the way the book ended and assured that I’d at last be able to sleep, without wondering what would happen next.

Sir Roger Danby is a bad boy. A player who thinks women are there for his – and their – pleasure. He’s a bit of a bully, too, arrogant and, I have to say, not the most likeable of men. Yet, I felt strangely drawn to him, wanting to know more, hoping he would come good in the end.

His constant innuendo was very real, reminiscent of oh, so many men one encounters. They think they’re witty. We women roll our eyes.

However, there was a certain vulnerability about the man, too, and a naivete, shown by his genuine belief that every woman he had ever bedded had come willingly and because she couldn’t resist him, rather than because it was a man’s world and she didn’t really have much choice.

In Lucy, though, he found the perfect foil. Terrified she may be, but she isn’t about to surrender and meekly let herself be trampled over by him. She’s been burnt before, and she isn’t putting herself anywhere near that fire again, if she can help it.

The story was also satisfying because there were no cardboard cut-out villains. All the characters we met came across as real people, their actions and attitudes believable, their motives understandable, if sometimes reprehensible.

I did guess whose fault it was that Roger was hurt in the first place, but that didn’t detract from the story at all. Not every work has to be a whodunnit, and I didn’t guess the why till the end, so that was OK.

I wonder if we will see more of Roger’s squire, Thomas, in the future, and learn how/whether he has matured? I do hope so.

Five stars.

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Lord of Pleasure by Erica Ridley

Lord of Pleasure ebook by Erica RidleyI enjoyed Lord of Pleasure, though it took me some while to figure out why. I decided it’s because it is a charming story.

I really felt for Lord Wainwright when I first met him. He couldn’t seem to do anything that didn’t get his name in the scandal sheets. He didn’t even have to try. He was like the little lad who always ends up at the Headmaster’s office saying, “I didn’t mean to, sir, it just sort of happened.”

So now, he is trying to be respectable and keep his nose clean. Well, you can bet that means all sorts of traps and snares await him.

Except, they don’t.

He meets Lady X at the masquerade ball (and by the way, why is he attending a scandalous event when he is trying to keep his nose clean?). From their first meeting, I kept waiting for the whole thing to blow up in their faces. It doesn’t. Even when it does, it doesn’t. (Read the book, you’ll see what I mean.)

They meet, they fall in love, without knowing who the other is. They are at loggerheads in day to day life. Well, that is to say, she dislikes him. He is just bewildered and guilty, but unable to put things right with her because, she hasn’t told him why she is angry with him. Men are just supposed to know these things, aren’t they?

The story reminded me of Miklos Laszlo’s “Shop around the corner”, and this was its charm. We know they are in love, we’re willing them to get together for real.

The side story of trying to keep his name out of the scandal sheets was a distraction, and I kept forgetting about it, and then saying, “Oh, yes, of course,” when it was mentioned. Perhaps more could have been made of it. He could have been digging a deeper and deeper hole for himself throughout. As it stood, he is never seriously in danger of losing the wager, more’s the pity.

Still, scandal or no, Wainwright was a likeable hero and charismatic, and he brought Camellia from her shell quite nicely.

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Lord of Chance by Erica Ridley

Lord of Chance ebook by Erica RidleyI have read several of Miss Ridley’s books. She writes in a no-nonsense, straightforward style that makes reading a joy.

In “Lord of Chance” Tony is a wonderful hero. He is flawed, and in a terrible bind. I have to admit that, right to the end, I was unsure how he was going to get out of his predicament. I didn’t see it coming, but the solution was satisfying, and perfect. I felt his gambling addiction was well portrayed and believable. I ached for him in his struggle.

Charlotte was very real, too, although her character did not linger as his did. That may be a sign of my personal preferences. She certainly knew what she wanted and she went after it. Defeat did not faze her much. She was a fully paid up member of the Try-Again brigade.

One thing did jar, though. Once they found themselves accidentally married, the pair looked for ways to escape it and Tony said he would not contest any grounds she put up for divorcing him. However, in English law, a woman could not divorce her husband, under any circumstances, until 1937. So Tony would have had to divorce her, provided he could afford it (doubtful). The process would have ruined her, and so would have been the absolute opposite of what she wanted.

In Scotland, a woman could divorce her husband at the time of the book, but since the pair did not know the laws governing marriage in Scotland, I found it hard to believe they would know Scottish divorce laws.

Still, for the most part, I was able to ignore this and just go where the story led. On that journey, I laughed, cried, willed the characters forwards, and tried to hold them back.

I look forward to the next book.

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Rescued by the Warriner

A Warriner To Rescue Her (Mills & Boon Historical) (The Wild Warriners, Book 2) by [Heath, Virginia]The second Warriner book stayed with me longer than the first did. I really wanted it to go on so I could find out what happened next.

We meet Cassie, our heroine, when she’s behaving in a totally inappropriate manner – climbing a tree – but it’s written in such a way that I completely believed this young lady would act like this. I laughed out loud at their meeting, and the way he suffered for it.

In fact, there were quite a few laugh out loud moments, and some lump-in-throat ones, too. There was even a passage or two when the tension made me read noticeably faster, as I anticipated the pair getting caught out.

(The rest of this review might be seen as a spoiler, so be warned before you read on.)

I loved the way Jamie put a supercilious clergyman in his place. It reminded me of my father, and the way he would not tolerate lack of respect. As a Christian, I was, of course, dismayed to see a clergyman behaving in such an un-Christian way in literature (again! Outside overtly Christian books, they are often portrayed as mad, bad or dangerous. It would be nice to have a few “normal” Christians to redress the balance. We’re not all psychopaths.) However, I am realistic enough to know there are believers just like him, in fact, I’ve met them, and the over-pious Reverend came across as a very real person.

My biggest bugbear with this book is, we have to wait so long to hear about the other Warriner brothers. More please.

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The Duke’s Unexpected Bride

The Duke's Unexpected Bride (Mills & Boon Historical) by [Temple, Lara]I thoroughly enjoyed this, the second book I’ve read by Lara Temple. It all seemed so plausible – a companion, an over-indulged pug (that reminded me of Tricky Woo in the James Herriott series. Yes, I am that old.)

There was also a duke with honour running through him like the word Brighton through a stick of rock. Max is a gorgeous hero, and Sophie a worthy heroine. Not once did I think this pair did not deserve each other. The danger built up slowly and from an unexpected quarter, but no so unexpected as to feel contrived. The characters and their interactions are complex and three dimensional, too. Life is not all black and white in Ms Temple’s world.

I am hoping Wivenhoe gets his own book soon, too.

One bugbear, and it’s a minor one. I’ve seen it quite a few times lately, and it drives me crackers. Why, oh why, do authors have characters addressing a duke as “Duke”. It’s not a name. It’s not a nickname. It’s a title, and one which would have garnered a lot of respect in the days when the story is set. Characters not entitled to address him by his proper name would have called him “Your Grace.” Calling him “Duke” is akin to calling Queen Elizabeth II “Queenie.” It just isn’t done.

(I know cockneys call women “Duchess.” But that’s someone in their own circle. They’d never consider calling a real life duchess that.)

But that is the only complaint I have, and I eagerly await the next book.

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